CAUTION!!!!
I need to remind those of you who live here in town with me that the girls do not know Rob is leaving and he is still living in the house with us. Rob and I are seeing a counselors to best work out the words and way to tell the girls. So please remember to watch what you say and who is there when you say it.
posted by Gail at 3:00 PM
8 Comments:
Gail,
From experience: Do Not lie to them, Do Not sugar coat it either. Say it like it is, no more no less. And for God sakes do not drag it on. Your girls know far more than they let on, Trust me this is also from experience. I was packed 6 months before we left. I know counselor says to let him stay, I think that is a mistake. Why should you suffer,and cover up your emotions to spare the girls, It is false and the sooner you get him out, the sooner the girls and you can start to heal. You Do Not owe him anything at this point and just delaying things will only tell the girls that you can lie to them too. Get the lawyer moveing and get his #@* out the door.
I agree I;m almost sure they know things aren't "right" get rid of him now!!! so you can move on with your lives
Oh no. I don't have a clue as to what is going on but I am sorry that it has come to this. I know you well enough to know that this decision was not made lightly and without much pain on your part. And for that, I am terribly sorry.
The other commenters are right - your girls are incredibly smart and probably know a lot more than you're giving them credit for at this point. They are strong, like their mother, and can handle the truth.
I'm praying for you. The door is always open and the phone is always right by my side.
- hfs
Remember what I told you , you are a gret MOM and strong person , you have done this for so long and have remained strong you have a lot of love and strong support when and if you need it. And you have great family support here and far and you have god right there anytime you might feel alone he will guide you through this . LOVE MOM &DAD
Gail,
I'm agree that the girls most likely do know that something is going on, but (and absolutely no disrespect is intended toward anyone here-believe me) you need to handle this the best way for you and the girls. In your heart, you will know what that way is. As everyone else has said-you are such a strong woman-even though sometimes it doesn't feel that way. You have done everything possible-and have done an amazing job raising those girls!! Like mom says-just remember your friends and family all love and support you. We will all be here for you no matter what, when or for how long!! Cory and I WILL be there this summer!!! Love you!!
I don't know what has happened either, but I wanted to let you know that you and your girls will be in my prayers. I know you have a wonderful family and lots of close friends that are always there for you, but if you ever need anything, please know I'm only a phone call or an email away.
Lots of love and prayers for you and your beautiful girls.
Only you know how to handle what you can. I can not agree with prior commentors as it's not my life and I don't know how I would handle it. You have to do what YOU need to do to get through this. You and the girls are in my prayers. Look to God to give you the answers. You know I'm here for you, too.
Okay, I know I have been away from you for awhile and had you on my mind. I thought I would drop by and say "hello" to all of you!
Now, I am in shock and don't know what is happening. But, do know that you are in my prayers. Drop me a line.
The girls are really growing up! WOW! Alyssa looks like you all over and Lindsey is really growing up. Timothy says "She's HOT"..yeah, I reminded him they were both in the same bath tub together when they were babies! LOL Hard to believe they are both 12 now!
((hugs)) Spring is finally here!
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