Sunday, April 20

Moving Forward

Finally I think we are moving forward. Rob and I signed the divorce papers. I think it is good now that it is over, finally we can all move on. There was only one major blow up during the visit which was expected there is always something you know but now I no longer have to allow him to stay at my house. That in it's self is a HUGE relief. The best part of the visit is that Rob and Alyssa are finally having some sort of relationship. Lin will take bit more time.

I do not love him living in the states. Now that he is state side he calls way too much. Seems moving is stressful. You think? I did all of it when we use to move he just went to work. Guess you never really know how much work something is till you have to do it yourself. I will say this he does have a lot on his plate right now. Rob has a new fiancé, ( this I believe is number 4 or is it 5 hard to keep track)They knew each other 2 months before she informed him he was going to be a daddy again. He is thrilled HAHAHAHAHA sorry I find it all so damn funny. Now he is working very hard on getting a Visa for her so she can have the baby in the US. He seems to think it will only take 3 months to accomplish this goal. Who am I to rain on that parade? My only concern is how the girls will feel about all of this. I don’t want them to feel as if they are being replaced.
As for me class is going great, and work is busy, I won’t know if the position I have now will become full time until about July so keep your fingers crossed. I really enjoy this job. The girls are doing good in school and it is almost summer time!!


Sunday, April 6

On Your Mark, Get Set, Deep Breath

The X is coming for a visit. He arrives Tuesday. No one is thrilled as a matter of fact the stress has started to build. The old talk of changing their names to my maiden name has become a regular topic of discussion again. He is moving back to the states, the main purpose of this visit is to pick up his truck. My only goal is to get the papers signed and to the lawyer so I can have this done and move on. Please keep us in your prayers for a quick uneventful visit. Its only 4 days how hard can that be?

taking deep breaths....