The Process
Daily it seems I am being drained emotionally. Yesterday they packed up all his things and today we set up separate accounts, worked out most of the details on who pays what with what account. At the end I was sobbing. And it wasn't that he left me with bills it was just the hollow feeling of separating our lives. Knowing the dreams and hopes we had for us and our future is gone.
It is just a heartbreaking painful process. I wonder when he leaves if it will really get easier? I know I will go on and get past this but at the moment I just keep reminding myself to keep breathing.
posted by Gail at 4:25 PM
8 Comments:
Gail, YOu have just gone through one of the hardest steps. Unfortunately, you (and the girls) have one more to get through before the healing can begin. Everything you are feeling right now is completely normal and natural. Just keep reminding yourself,each day, to breathe and put one foot in front of the other.
It will get a little easier each day. Remember that you are strong, you are beautiful, and you are a wonderful mother to two gorgeous young ladies. We all love you and are sending all of our support, and healing to you and the girls! Let us help you in any way we can!
Love You!!
I am sorry that you have to go through this. Your in our prayers.
We love you !
Gail,
Our prayers are with you. I know this is difficult and you wonder how you are going to get through it, Day by Day is how. In through the nose, out the mouth. Fortunatly, whether you realize it yet or not, you are a survivor. You have been standing on your own for so long that you will look back and wonder what you were so scared about. This will turn out to be no different than the past few years. We love you and are always here for you, venting is GOOD>
Jul
One day at a time is all we are asked to handle. Focus on today, make it the best that you can. You are strong and I know you will make it. Prayers and ((hugs)). Double stuffed oreos would be a good thing right now. Chin up and look forward!
All the other comments are so true. You are strong, you will get through this. Lots of hugs and plenty of prayers for you and the girls.
Lady... you will get through all of this..even if it doesn't seem that way right now..it will be for the better in the long run...God will sustain you through all of this ..just trust in him..and know that you have friends and family that love and support you...
Gail: You WILL get through this. We weren't promised an easy life, but God did promise that HE would not put more on us than we can bear. Trust His word; be strong and keep your eyes on the future (and those 2 pretty girls!). You will come out of this a stronger, better woman and will be better equipped to handle whatever else life tosses at you.
You have a large support group; remember there is STRENGTH in numbers. Much Love and Many Prayers.
I'm sorry I haven't been around lately. You and the girls are in my prayers. Holler if you need anything.
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